Really , it is all babble!

Well that's it i am in love and could not be happier.........Yes we would all love to say that!!!!

A friend asked me a question about her relationship.My answer to her dismay was multi para graphical and SO SO SO very honest. I think that i really upset her, i saw tears in her eyes
and she has not spoken to me since. SO the question of the day is WHY ASK THE QUESTION
IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR THE ANSWER?

My thoughts on the subject is that we already know the answers....at least to the hard questions.
I think we ask so we don't have to face the answer...it is easier to get the wrong answer and then blame the one who was willing to tell you what you wanted to hear when things go wrong. Life and love are not supposed to be easy....if they were we would take it all for granted. Struggle helps us appreciate those things that really mean the most.

This philosophy only works though if we are willing to learn from our mistakes and misfortunes.
If you marry for looks and money....after the ugly divorce....try loving for the human factor. If you are an addict.....well... duh...avoid what you are addicted to. If it bothers you... eliminate it.
If you are not happy...then it is time to move on.
Now was that so hard?