Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Life mates

Do you ever think that humans were never meant to have life long mates? I wonder sometimes. Though i am extremely loyal and totally opposed to infidelity in any type of relationship.. i know that 60 % of people are not. Scary number huh! true love is not a concept that i can not really understand. But can any human. I know that when you choose to give yourself to another, it should be a 100% commitment. But if it fails or goes bad..as long as you are honest and end your situation...there is nothing matter with moving on. If you have children you should be very careful not to hurt them in the process. I have been there! My children though have always come first! Just ask my boyfriend..hahaha! I do however leave room for respecting my mate. I am not sure that my man sees things the same way...he always seems to be waiting to see what is around the next corner....not so committed! But i believe he is loyal in the physical aspect. Just not as much in the mental aspect. I think this is normal for most men though. I always here women say that their men have cold feet when it comes to commitments of the mind and spirit.
I hope i am not just being naive. I have to trust that it is all a venus and mars thing....what do you think?

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