I wish there was a way to change all of the little things we don't like about other people and not change the person. I have all my own flaws to deal with...that is for sure! Would that be cool or what! To stop your lover from doing that one little annoying thing that you just can't stand! I must admit though the little annoyances in those we love are usually what attracts us to them initially. We see them as funny until we live with them for a while. And let us be real...If you love someone you don't really want them to change. Maybe we need to adapt. We need to realize that our little differences are what makes us beautiful. Not only do we need them we thrive on them! Opposites do attract!
I know that in my own relationship there are major differences between the two of us. Sometimes i think that those differences will be the end of us. I don't feel the need to look at other men... and when i am not around sometimes he looks a bit too hard....But i think that this is quite normal. And i know he loves me. No i don't like it....but i am after all..not him. So i trust that it is all in fantasy...if not he can go chase whoever he wants to. Just not while we share a home and life.
We also share different religious beliefs. This can definitely cause some issues. We are in fact fundamentally opposites. I am wiccan..he is christian. I respect all life..he looks out for his own interests. I have faith in humanity..he has doubts. I think about tomorrow..he lives in the moment. I am green.... he is..... Well if he even knew, i would tell you.
But we live, laugh, love and share together. Together..that is the ticket!
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